

East West Toi et Moi Ring
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French for “You and Me,” the Toi et Moi engagement ring embodies a rich, romantic history that includes some famous names. Napoleon Bonaparte proposed to Josephine de Beauharnais with a Toi et Moi ring around 1796. Jackie Kennedy celebrated her engagement to John F. Kennedy with a custom-designed Toi et Moi ring reflecting her signature style.
Traditional Toi et Moi rings display two different gemstones, cut and sized identically and affectionately set side-by-side. Contemporary ones, like ours, capture all the romance more playfully - varying in size, shape, and color.
- 4mm round lab-grown stone
- 6x4mm emerald-cut lab-grown stone
- Made in a variety of metals
- Shiny or matte finish
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